So, you’re thinking of starting a blog? First of all—yay, welcome to the club! If you’ve ever dreamed of having your own little corner of the internet to spill your thoughts, share your passions, or become the next lifestyle blogging sensation, I’m here to tell you it’s 100% doable (and not nearly as scary as it seems).
When I started becomingtia.com, I had no idea what I was doing—but after a little trial and error, I figured out a system that works. Let me spill the tea on how to get your blog up and running without wanting to throw your laptop out the window.
Step 1: Choose Your Hosting Provider
Okay, before we get to the fun part (picking fonts and writing your heart out), you need a place for your blog to live on the internet. I personally use Hostinger—they’re reliable, affordable, and beginner-friendly.
Here’s why I went with Hostinger:
- Budget-Friendly Plans – Because we’re trying to build a blog empire, not go broke.
- Fast Loading Speeds – No one likes waiting for a page to load. Your readers will thank you.
- One-Click WordPress Installation – If I can figure it out, trust me, so can you.
- 24/7 Customer Support – For those late-night “why isn’t this working?!” moments.
When I first signed up, I had absolutely no clue what I was doing. I spent hours Googling how to install WordPress and reading forum threads like my life depended on it. But once I found Hostinger, everything clicked. Their setup wizard literally walked me through each step like a patient bestie holding my hand.
Step 2: Pick Your Domain Name
Your blog name is kind of a big deal—it’s your online alter ego. Whether you’re going for something cute and catchy or sleek and professional, Hostinger makes it easy by offering free domain registration with select plans. Try to choose something that reflects your vibe (and maybe isn’t already taken by someone who got there first—been there, cried over that).
I landed on becomingtia.com because I knew my blog would always be a journey—a place where I could document the process of becoming who I’m meant to be, one post at a time. Don’t overthink it—your blog name can evolve with you.
Step 3: Install WordPress
Once you’ve secured your domain, it’s time to install WordPress—the Beyoncé of blogging platforms. Hostinger makes this part ridiculously simple with their one-click installation. You’ll have your site up faster than you can say, “Hello, world!”
I remember hitting that install button and just staring at my blank WordPress dashboard like… now what? If you’re feeling the same way, you’re not alone. The trick is to just start clicking around. Break things. Mess up. Google how to fix it. Repeat.
Step 4: Choose Your Theme
Here’s where the magic happens. For my blog, I use Kadence Themes—and I will sing their praises from the rooftops.
Why Kadence? I’m glad you asked:
- Lightweight & Fast – Your blog will load quicker than your morning coffee brews.
- Drag-and-Drop Customization – No coding required (because who has time for that?).
- Free & Paid Versions – Start for free, upgrade when you’re ready to get fancy.
- Gorgeous Designs – Because your blog deserves to be just as pretty as your Pinterest boards.
- Accessibility-Focused – Everyone should be able to enjoy your content, period.
If you’re looking for even more theme inspo, some of my favourite places to browse for blog themes are:
- Verso by Style Cloud
- Emily by Creative Her
- Charlotte by Creative Her
- Olivia by Brand & Blogger
- Impact by Restored 316
- Light Romance by Kreative Avenue Designs
Step 5: Customize Your Blog
Once you’ve installed your theme, it’s time to sprinkle some personality into your site.
A few things to set up:
- Your homepage layout (do you want a grid, a list, or something totally custom?)
- Your colour palette (I’m partial to earth tones, but you do you)
- Your logo (even if it’s just your blog name in a cute font)
- Must-have plugins like SEO tools, security, and caching to keep things running smoothly
One of the best things I did was create a little mood board on Pinterest to guide my blog’s vibe. If you’re not sure where to start, start pinning fonts, colour palettes, and other blogs that inspire you. Before you know it, you’ll start seeing your style come together.
Step 6: Start Writing!
Now comes the best part—actually creating content! Whether you’re writing about your latest skincare obsession, life lessons at your ripe old age, or sharing recipes that would make your grandma proud, the key is to write like you’re talking to a friend (hi, that’s me!).
I know how intimidating that blank page can feel. My first few blog posts were basically love letters to no one because I was convinced no one would ever read them. But here’s the thing—everyone starts with zero readers. Write anyway. Your people will find you.
Need a little spark of inspiration? These bloggers always get my creative wheels turning:
- Teak & Thyme – Beautiful recipes and cozy vibes
- Teresa Caruso – Lifestyle, tech finds, and home decor
- Karina Style Diaries – Fashion with a touch of everyday life
- Come Stay Awhile – Modern home decor inspo
- Sweats and City – Wellness and city life
- Styled Snapshots – Fashion, motherhood, and travel
- Everyday Parisian – Parisian lifestyle and travel tips
- By Amber Burns – Books, lifestyle, and self-care
- Kate La Vie – Beauty, interiors, and life in Scotland
- Simply Taralynn – Travel, food, and lifestyle
Step 7: Monetize Your Blog (If You Want)
Once you’ve got a little traffic flowing, you can dip your toes into the world of affiliate marketing, sponsored posts, or selling your own products. But no pressure—if you’re just here to have fun and express yourself, that’s totally valid too.
Starting a blog can feel like a big, intimidating project—but I promise, if I can figure it out, so can you. With Hostinger powering your site and Kadence Themes making everything look cute, you’ll be well on your way to becoming the blogger you were always meant to be.
Got questions? Need a pep talk? Slide into my DMs or check out more blogging tips right here on becomingtia.com!
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Very interesting tips. I haven’t bought a theme yet as I still aren’t sure what I look I want to go for long term!
Hey Annie! Yeah, themes can be a pretty penny but whether you buy one or get one for free, you can always switch it up (I do that like once a year xD). Also, if you subscribe to Creative Market or ThemeForest, they send you weekly and/or monthly freebies which sometimes include free premium themes. 🙂 That’s how I started with using other people’s themes for free.